Frequently Asked Questions


Do we have to be married?

No. Counselling is available to couples at different stages of their relationships, whether you're dating, living together, engaged or married.

Do both partners have to attend?

Couples counselling is designed to involve both partners. As part of the initial three-session onboarding process, each partner will also have an individual 45-minute session.

What if we're thinking about separating?

Counselling doesn't have to be about saving a relationship at all costs.

Sometimes couples need help understanding whether they can move forward together. Sometimes the healthiest outcome may be separating respectfully.

My role is not to tell you whether you should stay together or separate. I'll help you explore what's happening and make decisions based on your own circumstances and goals.

Can we talk about sex?

Yes. Sex and intimacy are important parts of many relationships, and I'm comfortable discussing them openly and without judgement.

Do you work with cross-cultural couples?

Yes. This is one of my particular areas of interest. I work with couples from different cultural backgrounds, including expat couples and Thai-Western relationships.

Do I need to have a serious relationship problem before coming?

No. I believe couples counselling can be useful even when a relationship is healthy. Learning how to communicate, manage conflict and understand each other can help prevent smaller problems from becoming bigger ones.

Is counselling confidential?

Information shared during counselling is treated as confidential, subject to the limitations outlined in my disclosure statement.

When working with couples, I generally operate under a no-secrets policy. Information shared privately by one partner that significantly affects the counselling process may need to be addressed within the joint counselling process.

Do you provide emergency or crisis counselling?

No. I do not provide emergency or 24-hour crisis services. If your situation requires immediate or specialist mental health support, I can recommend referral to an appropriately qualified professional.

What if my needs are outside your area of competence?


I'll be honest with you. If I believe another professional would be better placed to support you, I may recommend an appropriate referral.